Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

 

What if there was a way you could train your wisdom and insight? No tools or equipment required. No books to read. No classes to attend. All you’d need is a few minutes each day. Such a means of building a wider perspective and developing clear insight exists. It’s called Zen meditation.

 

Zen Buddhist traditions place a greater emphasis on meditation than do some of the other schools of Buddhism. In Zen Buddhism, there’s a belief that wisdom, morality, and insight follow naturally from meditation practice. 

 

In this article, we’ll take a closer look at the two fundamental components of Zen meditation, which are ‘stopping’ and ‘looking deeply’. We’ll define Zen meditation and give some step-by-step instructions on how to practice Zen meditation. Ultimately, I’d like to clarify the somewhat intangible terms of ‘insight’ and ‘wisdom’, by illustrating short, real-life examples of how each Zen meditation session is like a deposit into a bank, in that the merits can be withdrawn later when conducting your daily life. 

 

“If you pack the wood too densely, the fire will not take; the flames need room to breathe. In the same way, if our lives have no breathing room, we won’t be able to enjoy all the things we have, no matter how great or precious they are.”

– Haemin Sunim, Love for Imperfect Things (paid link)

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What is Zen meditation?

 

Zen meditation, also known as zazen, is an integral aspect of Zen philosophy, derived from the Japanese term “zenno,” which originates from the Chinese Ch’an or channo, meaning “absorptive concentration”. Zazen, translated as “seated mind,” serves as the cornerstone of Zen, regarded not only as the pathway to wisdom and insight but, in the words of thirteenth-century master Dogen, as wisdom itself when practiced with wholehearted commitment. Zen meditation is not merely a component of Zen philosophy. It is the essence of Zen.

 

“If you are unable to find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it?”

– Dogen

 

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How to do Zen meditation

  • Stop doing whatever it is you were doing. Simply sit or stand still for a moment before engaging in the following instructions. 
  • Begin your meditation practice with a small bow towards your cushion or chair as a gesture of respect for the space you are about to occupy. 
  • Take a cross-legged position.
  • Gently lower your chin, open your eyes, and soften your focus, looking down about three feet in front of you. 
  • Place your tongue against the roof of your mouth to promote proper nasal breathing. 
  • Cradle your left hand with your right, thumbs meeting just below your navel.
  • Inhale through your nose, imagining your lower belly filling like a balloon, following the air’s movement. Exhale, “watching” the journey of the air as it exits through your nostrils. 
  • Establish a breathing pattern and count each breath, starting with one on the inbreath and two on the outbreath, progressing to ten, then returning to one. Acknowledge thoughts, let them go, and return to one if your mind wanders. 
  • Dedicate the merits of your practice to a loved one or to all beings.

 

Stopping: The first essential component of Zen meditation

 

Zen meditation recognizes that the mind and body are one. When the body is rushing, the mind races. When the mind is troubled, the body tenses. This is why Zen meditation teachers urge us to stop and sit for dedicated meditation practice. We must first calm the body before calming the mind. 

 

To stop in the sense of Zen meditation, we must literally stop using our body to manipulate the world. When you want to practice Zen meditation, first put down the phone, don’t try to kill two birds with one stone by stretching or practicing yoga, don’t worry about lighting incense or ringing a meditation bell. Invite total stillness. 

 

After we’ve settled the body, we can begin to use the breath as the bridge between mind and body which returns us to a natural state not dominated by language and intellect. The late Zen meditation teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh, called this returning home: 

 

“We run throughout our whole life, chasing after some idea of happiness. Stopping means to stop our running, our forgetfulness, and our being caught in the past or future. We come home to the present moment where life is available. The present moment contains every moment.”

– Thich Nhat Hanh, How To Relax (paid link)

 

Connecting with your natural state of composure

 

There is this idea in Zen philosophy that we’re like a block of uncarved wood, that our natural state is one of wholeness and composure. The human ability to detect patterns and use language to make sense of the world is like the blade that carves and shapes our mind into our concept of ‘self’. The sense of self is merely a collection of perceived patterns, some of which turn out to be incorrect when examined closely. These learned concepts beget expectations and desires. When we attach ourselves to these expectations and desires, we suffer. 

 

Additionally, the only thing that makes the past or future seem real is language. So this stopping, this returning home to the breath, is a break from the long-chain thinking we’re accustomed to. It’s a break from all the external thinking, labeling, and pattern-recognizing we all do. This is why the breath is so important as an object of focus. It’s always there. It’s a bridge between mind and body, and it requires no concepts, notions, ideas, or language.

 

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Looking deeply: The second essential component of Zen meditation 

 

Zen philosophy has a rich history and a vibrant culture today, so it’s no surprise that there are many different Zen meditation techniques. In some traditions, meditators use koans, which are paradoxical statements, stories, or questions which the meditator contemplates. One example is, “What was your original face before you were born?” In other traditions, a practice called Shikantaza (literally, “nothing but precise sitting”) is used to cultivate wisdom. Shikantaza is a variation of mindfulness or concentration meditation, whereby the meditator simply observes whatever bubbles up. Sounds, thoughts, sensations—just watch them come and go naturally. 

 

Then there’s the practice of looking deeply. This is where the meditator seeks the true nature of things. It’s the stripping away of the fabricated concepts that the human mind attaches to everything. The guidance of the Eightfold Path is useful here. Several of its folds come into play when looking deeply during meditation. 

 

We can practice Right Understanding by actively contemplating impermanence and non-attachment. We can practice compassion and seeing interconnection in the world by practicing loving kindness meditation. In loving kindness meditation, we simply repeat the phrases: May you be healthy. May you be happy. May you be at peace. 

 

To sustain this practice, we must have Right Concentration, where we marry our attention with our intention to practice. We must also practice Right Mindfulness, which helps us notice when we’ve become distracted. 

 

Related article: Right Mindfulness & Right Concentration Of The Eightfold Path

Wisdom and insight are byproducts of practice

 

The methods are many, but the result of all these Zen meditation techniques is the same. When we stop and reflect as prescribed by the Zen meditation practices we’ve discussed, we can begin to see why Zen philosophy says insight and wisdom naturally follow from meditation. 

 

How could we not walk away wiser from a 20-minute meditation session during which we contemplated, however briefly, impermanence, interconnection, and unconditional love for all beings? How could we not walk away with a deeper understanding of our true nature from a 20-minute stretch during which we allowed our minds and bodies to rest in silence?

 

To say that insight and wisdom naturally follow from Zen meditation makes it sound easy, but this is not my intention. We must first break the habit of running, striving, planning, doing, and breaking a habit is never easy. Then, we must get good at observing the breath to settle the mind. Finally, once we are able to stop and return home to the breath, we can contemplate fundamental truths of life like impermanence and non-attachment, which is important because although they are fundamental, they are not always apparent in our daily lives. 

 

The benefits of Zen meditation

 

I’d like to leave you not with studies showing the physiological and psychological benefits of meditation, although that would be easy to do given there are so many of them out there. Instead, I’d like to leave you with some short, hypothetical examples of how the benefits of Zen meditation—the wisdom and insight that naturally flow from it—can occur in daily life. 

 

These are some ways that wisdom and insight manifest themselves in real life. Full disclosure: I’ve adapted most of the items from the list below from a wonderful book by Korean Zen Buddhist teacher, Haemin Sunim called The Things You Can Only See When You Slow Down (paid link)

 

When a terrible feeling arises, look for its transient nature. Remind yourself that it is only a visitor, and that it’ll be gone soon. 

The wise don’t stuff themselves at a meal to the point of feeling bloated and uncomfortable. They are aware of when they’ve eaten enough. 

When others are angry or abusive towards you, your first thought is, ‘This person is suffering. I wonder what’s causing that suffering.’ 

In relationships, your love is usually the only variable you can control. You can show your love in infinite ways, but you cannot control what they think, say, or do. 

Your true nature is that of unshakable composure. Only envy and expectation disrupt this natural steadiness of mind. 

When confronted with a difficult situation, be incredibly curious of your initial thought regarding it. The initial thought is like the lead in a good journalist’s story. It sets the tone for the rest of the narrative. Like any piece of good writing, it can be molded and shaped however you like. 

When you are overwhelmed, write everything that’s overwhelming you down on a piece of paper. This alleviates much of the angst. You’ll feel instantly better having organized your thoughts and having gotten them ‘out’ of your head. Now, place the paper on your desk, and take a rest—meditate, go for a walk, or go to bed. After you’ve rested, return to the paper and transform it into a list of small actions to take to resolve some of the issues. 

Try to be joyful even when you don’t feel like it. Part of Zen wisdom is keeping an open, curious, and playful mind. Anger closes the door to an open mind because anger is a state of certainty (I am angry because so-and-so did this), so choose joy whenever possible. 

When faced with a tough decision, add this factor into your equation: ‘How many people will benefit from this?’ If the answer is only yourself, then it may be the wrong decision. 

The easiest way to speak more eloquently and carefully is to say less. 

When you feel irritated or slightly depressed, do something kind for someone else. This will not solve your problem, but you will feel better. This is incredibly hard to do, so be patient with yourself as you practice.

 

Final thoughts

 

These instances, scenarios, and guidelines may seem idealistic. ‘Wisdom’ and ‘insight’ are lofty terms. I hope that the above points illustrate what these terms truly mean. Wisdom and insight are action states—they’re verbs. They’re things that you think, say, and do in real life. 

 

The ability to think, speak, and act like a Zen monk is within your reach. Wisdom and insight are only idealistic and intangible to the mind that is too busy, too caught up in the day-to-day. Zen meditation is the training ground that gradually builds the capacity to act in the ways described above. It’s the elevated look-off point that lets you climb out from under the canopy to see the panoramic view of the entire forest.

 

Remember, the first and most critical foundation of Zen meditation is to simply stop and sit. Don’t worry about concepts, techniques, or teachings. Just find stillness. 

 

Once you’ve mastered the ability to stop, you can then consider interconnection in your life. You can observe the transient nature of pain and beauty in your life. You can ask yourself, ‘what expectations, objects, or desires am I attached to? How can I let them go?’ These simple contemplations of the true nature of reality, and how it relates to your life, when combined with the restorative act of stopping, shift your neural circuitry in ways that enable wise thought, speech, and action. 

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Right Mindfulness & Right Concentration Of The Eightfold Path

Right Mindfulness & Right Concentration Of The Eightfold Path

If I were to define Zen Buddhism, I would do so in two four-word sentences:

 

Absolute attention is prayer.

Compassion for all beings.

 

“Zen teaches nothing. It merely enables us to wake up and become aware. It does not teach; it points. The truth of Zen is the truth of life, and life means to live, to move, to act, not merely to reflect. The truth of Zen is what turns one’s humdrum life, a life of monotonous, uninspiring commonplaces into one of art, full of genuine creativity.” – D. T. Suzuki

 

Let’s review the Four Noble Truths before we begin our exploration of the Right Mindfulness and Right Concentration practices of the Eightfold Path. I define all the elements of the Eightfold Path as practices, because this is not a philosophy. It’s a way of living your life, which entails your active participation and practice. 

Summary of the Four Noble Truths

 

The Buddha simplified the solution to the problems of the human condition into what he called the Four Noble Truths.

 

The First Noble Truth simply stated that human suffering is inevitable. There is suffering. To be human is to suffer. We all experience it.

 

The Second Noble Truth identified the causes of suffering: craving, delusion, and ignorance.

 

The Third Noble Truth was the critical step. The Buddha taught that since there was an identifiable cause for suffering, then there had to be an identifiable method for ending human suffering. That method was the Fourth Noble Truth.

 

The Fourth Noble Truth was the path to the end of suffering, what the Buddha called the Eightfold Path. The Fourth Noble Truth was a systematic approach to the end of human suffering—the dispelling of ignorance and the liberation of the mind. This is the Eightfold Path.

 

Related article: The Eightfold Path: Guidance For Life’s Challenges

 

Right mindfulness

 

Mindfulness is one of the eight practices of this path. It’s the one element of the path unifying and informing all the others. Thich Nhat Hanh writes, “When Right Mindfulness is present, the Four Noble Truths and the seven other elements of the Eightfold Path are present.” All together the eight practices are:

 

Right Mindfulness

Right Concentration

Right Thought

Right Understanding/View 

Right Action

Right Effort

Right Livelihood

Right Speech 

 

“There exists only the present instant; a Now which always and without end is itself new. There is no yesterday, and no tomorrow, but only Now, as it was a thousand years ago, and a thousand years hence.” – Meister Eckhart

 

Mindfulness is always now. The reality of your life is always now and to realize this, and experience it, can be liberating. But we spend most of our lives forgetting this truth—overlooking it, running from it, repudiating it. And for the most part, we succeed. We somehow manage to avoid being happy while struggling to become happy, chasing one desire after another, ignoring our fears, grasping at pleasure and seeking to avoid pain, and thinking incessantly about how to keep the ball going so that we don’t fall apart! It consumes our every waking moment. Sound familiar?

 

As a result, we spend our lives much less content than we might otherwise be. We fail to appreciate what we have until we’ve lost it. We crave experiences, material objects, relationships, only to become unsatisfied or bored with them. Being happy or wishing we could be happy all our lives is illusory. 

 

Right mindfulness of daily miracles

 

Existence is yin and yang, suffering and joy, pleasure and pain, praise and blame, etc. But with Right Mindfulness we can learn to lessen our pain and experience joy. And we can turn our suffering into compassion and joy. Despite our suffering, even on bad days there are daily miracles for us to notice and to fill us with delight. 

 

The problem is twofold. First, we are not grateful for what we have and the experiences we encounter throughout the day. When we are grateful for the daily miracles that life offers us then we begin to feel joy. Secondly, we are so focused on our own problems, we are so bored by our mundane lives that we don’t recognize the myriad of gifts that come our way.

 

So to appreciate what our lives have to offer we need to be awake—we must be mindful. We can’t be grateful for what we don’t notice. With practice we find that meditation or mindfulness practices make our ‘ordinary experiences’ extraordinary. I, myself, have found that meditating, whether walking or sitting, allows me to rest both my mind and body. It’s taking time out from ‘doing’ and switching to ‘being’ mode—simply letting go and following the music of my breath and my own beating heart.

 

How can we become aware of all the miracles of life if we don’t even notice them, if we’re caught in a continuous loop, ruminating on the past, and fretting over the future?

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There’s no fighting in this practice

 

In the beginning, when we practice meditation, there’s no chasing after concepts, but simply focusing on our breath and embracing silence and resting. And when thoughts or emotions arise, simply embrace them with your breath, and gently let them go. 

 

It’s essential to know that there’s no need to struggle—there’s no fighting in this practice. Be kind to yourself, you are trying your best. With every mindful breath and every mindful step, you are beginning a journey to live a good life with meaning. You are beginning on the Eightfold Path. The goal is not to chase after dogma and concepts or seek ‘enlightenment’. In Zen Buddhism, the Path, itself, and helping others who are also on it, is the goal.

 

“The true journey of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having fresh eyes.” – Marcel Proust

 

Mindfulness has become a commonplace practice these days and is used in hospitals, substance abuse recovery groups, in the workplace, and by professional athletes. It’s practiced in completely secular settings and the literature on its psychological benefits is now substantial. There’s nothing esoteric about mindfulness. It’s simply a state of clear, nonjudgmental, and undistracted attention to the contents of consciousness, whether pleasant or unpleasant. 

 

Right mindfulness requires great courage

 

Critics of mindfulness practice maintain that practicing meditation is simply ‘navel-gazing’: a passive enterprise that engages in wishful thinking and is simply a waste of time. However, there’s nothing passive about mindfulness. In fact, it requires an immense effort on one’s part.

 

Rather than engaging in wishful thinking, it requires great courage, for it entails standing in the ground of our own lives without running away from our own problems and shortcomings, without trying to project ourselves into a better strategic future, without resisting ‘what is’ in favor of ‘what should be’. Once we begin to perceive our lives more clearly and the problems that we, as humans, inevitably face, we can find better solutions to our own problems and ways to overcome our own shortcomings.

 

We are all struggling; none of us have gone far.

Let your arrogance go and look around inside–

The blue sky opens out farther and farther,

The daily sense of failure goes away.

The damage I have done to myself fades,

And a healing light seeps through the cracks

When I sit firmly in that world.

You are not alone. 

 

Right Concentration

 

Eventually, by practicing Right Mindfulness, we develop an ability to concentrate, to focus our attention. Then, and only then, can we practice compassion by combining attention with intention for going beyond mindfulness to moral experience. This practice is called loving-kindness meditation. Love is not just a feeling, but an ability. And if it’s an ability, we can practice it. 

 

If we have someone in our lives who is going through a very difficult illness, we say, ‘May this person be loved and protected, happy and healthy.’ You can say it for yourself, too. We need to be compassionate towards ourselves. We can say it for our families, our loved ones. Eventually, we expand our circle of love to more and more people, even to those we do not know. 

 

I live my life in ever-widening circles

That reach out across the world.

I may not ever complete the last one,

but I give myself to it.

Rilke

 

When I first moved to Seoul, South Korea to teach, I became very claustrophobic on the subway. It was so crowded. If I was lucky enough to get a seat, I would wedge myself in between two people and take a quick glance around me at the tension on people’s faces. I would then close my eyes, and practice loving-kindness with a calm smile on my face. I would think over and over, ‘May everyone on this subway car today be loved and protected, happy and healthy.’ It helped me. It actually became a part of my daily routine. But the most remarkable thing was that when I opened my eyes, I could see and feel that a lot of the stress was gone from people’s faces. Some people would even smile at me. Psychiatry has a term for this phenomenon: emotional contagion.

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Right concentration and insight meditation

 

Along with loving-kindness meditation, we may also begin to cultivate Right Concentration by practicing vipassana or what is often called ‘insight meditation’. 

 

My teacher would refer to vipassana as ‘looking deeply’. He also would refer to the ‘energy’ of mindfulness, or to shine the light of mindfulness on something. This used to confuse me, until I realized that he was referring to concentration—the ability to focus our attention on something inside or outside of ourselves for clarity—for insight. 

 

Full disclosure: My teacher was and still is Thich Nhat Hanh. I have never met him but his teachings, his writings, and his poetry were a guide for me in a time of darkness. He has passed away now, but his teachings live on. And he would be the first person to tell you that eventually you need no teacher but yourself. Don’t get caught up in dharma talks, dogma, charismatic teachers, claiming to be ‘enlightened’. Live in the present moment and have compassion for all sentient beings. There’s an old Zen aphorism that says: ‘Do not mistake the finger pointing at the moon as the moon itself.’

 

Related article: Thich Nhat Hanh & The Zen Practice Of Stopping

 

With the simple practices of sitting and walking meditation, one can learn to concentrate, to focus. With this ability to practice Right Concentration, we can look deeply into ourselves to identify our suffering, what has caused it, and how we can best alleviate it. Often, there are no quick answers, or certitudes. Sometimes, it’s enough to accept the mystery of life itself.

 

Let things take their way

 

In Western culture, we are always looking for logical answers to all of life’s questions. In university, whether writing an essay for history, philosophy, or the social sciences we must begin with an argument. We have to repudiate the work of someone else. If we write a master’s or doctoral thesis, we have to defend it against a group of professors. The study of literature is not the appreciation of brilliant literature but literary criticism.

 

In the teachings of Zen Buddhism, a teacher or master, tells stories, leaving the onus on the student to understand the teaching for themselves. A student once complained to his master: ‘You always tell us stories, but you never reveal their meaning to us.’ The master replied: ‘How would you like it if I gave you fresh fruit and then chewed it for you?’

 

When we come to Buddhism, we’re generally in a hurry for answers to all our questions and get caught up in concepts: the meaning of impermanence, emptiness, no-self, etc. It’s best to be patient with yourself. Go at your own pace as you walk the Eightfold Path.

 

Where did my life come from?

Where will it go?

Even the present moment

Can’t be pinned down.

Everything changes, everything is empty 

And in that emptiness, this ‘I’ exists 

Only for a little while.

How can one say anything is or is not?

Best just to hold these little thoughts.

Let things simply take their way

And so be natural and at your ease.

– Ryokan 

 

Harmonizing intention with attention

 

By ending our search for precise answers and by relinquishing our need to defend against and control external factors, we free up cognitive bandwidth. We open our hearts and minds, creating the conditions favorable for Right Concentration. We need this receptivity and clarity to practice Right Concentration—to harmonize our intention with attention.

 

Usually, we wake up in the morning reinvigorated with good intentions. We start our week afresh each Monday feeling motivated to tackle the challenges that lay before us. Classically, we mark January 1st as a day imbued with fresh intentions. But, in all of these cases, we often fail to sustain our intentions. So what goes wrong? 

 

The antithesis of Right Concentration is distraction. We fail to manifest our intentions because we allow all kinds of thieves of attention to enter our conscious experience. In fact, we often deliberately welcome them in the form of entertainment, discursive engagement on social media, and unchecked sensual pleasure. 

 

Zen Buddhism teaches that our innate nature is one of stillness—clear and undisturbed, transparent and reflective, like the mirrored surface of a pristine lake. Naturally, we are like an uncarved block of wood, unaltered by the whittling of distraction. 

 

Right Mindfulness is the spotlight that illuminates our experience. Right Concentration is the aperture we can use to focus the light wherever we choose. Right Concentration keeps distractions, grasping, and aversion in the dark, leaving us with a torch of attention that we can direct towards the truly good things in life. With it, we can illuminate all the simple beauty often abundant in our lives: a fridge full of food, the changing colors of nature, a long car trip with the people we love most. We can illuminate our breath in sitting meditation with the intention to simply experience our existence. We can shine our awareness on thoughts of love and peace for ourselves, our loved ones, and for all beings. We can shine it on our body with the intention of softening, slowing, stopping.

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Meditation is the training ground 

 

For Right Mindfulness and Right Concentration to permeate our daily experience, we must train the muscles of mindfulness. This is done through meditation. 

 

Mindfulness meditation isn’t easy. Practice is the only thing that can lead to success. As every meditator soon discovers, distraction is a pervasive condition of our minds—whether wandering off into daydreaming or falling into negative states of mind. Meditation is a technique for waking up. The goal is to come out of the spell of incessant thinking and to stop reflexively grasping at the pleasant and recoiling from the unpleasant, so that we can experience a mind of equanimity undisturbed by worry.

 

How to meditate

 

1. Sit comfortably with your spine erect, either in a chair or cross-legged on a cushion.

2. Take a few deep breaths, and feel the points of contact between your body and the chair or floor. Notice any sensations associated with sitting—pressure, warmth, tingling, etc.

3. Gradually become aware of the sensation of breathing. Pay close attention to where you feel your breath the most—the nostrils, mouth, or the rising and falling of your abdomen.

4. Allow your attention to rest in the sensation of breathing. You don’t have to manipulate your breath. Your breath will take care of itself. Is it shallow or deep? Does it change as you settle in or don’t settle in, whatever the case?

5. Every time your mind wanders (which will be every few seconds), gently return your attention to the breath. Don’t judge yourself harshly for failing to hold your attention on the breath. There is no fighting in this practice. Be kind to yourself. You’re doing your best.

6. As you focus on the process of breathing, you will also perceive sounds, bodily sensations, and emotions. Don’t push them away. Simply observe these phenomena as they appear in your consciousness and then return to the breath.

7. The moment you notice that you have been lost in thought (this is mindfulness), observe the present thought (I have been lost in thought) as an object of your attention. Then return your attention to the breath or to any sounds or sensations arising in the next moment.

8. Continue in this way until you can merely witness all objects of consciousness—sights, sounds, sensations, emotions, even thoughts themselves as they arise, change, and pass away.

     

    Success is not measured in terms of what is happening to us, but by how we relate to what is happening. Not paying attention keeps us in an endless cycle of wanting, of longing. We move on to the next thing because we aren’t cognizant of what we already have. Inattention creates an endless need for stimulation for us to feel alive! We can easily fall into addictive behavior.

     

    His life is a pursuit of a pursuit forever

    It is the future that creates his present

    All is an interminable chain of longing

    – Robert Frost

     

    When our lives feel like an endless chain of longing, usually the first link in the chain is not being fully present. Concentration is what breaks the chain. Learning to deepen our concentration allows us to look at the world with calm and equanimity and begin to feel at home with our body and mind and with life itself. 

    Your true home

     

    With right mindfulness and concentration, you can find your true home in the full relaxation of your mind and body in the present moment. No one can take it away from you. When we stop speaking and thinking and deeply enjoy our in- and out-breath, we arrive at our true home and we can touch the wonders of life. When you breathe in, you bring all yourself together, body and mind: you become one. Equipped with that energy of mindfulness, you may take a step. And if you can take one step, you can take another and another.

     

    “Once you’re facing in the right direction, all you need is to keep walking.”

     

    With insight you realize that you are alive. Your true home is a solid reality that you can touch with your hands, feet, and mind. In your daily life, your body and mind often go in two different directions. You’re in a state of distraction; mind one place, body another. Your body is putting on your coat, getting what you need for your day, and your mind is preoccupied—caught in the past and the future. But between the mind and body there is something that can bring them together: your breath. 

     

    And as soon as you go home to your breath with awareness, your mind and body come together very quickly. While breathing in, you don’t think of anything; just focus your attention on your in-breath. Become your in-breath. Suddenly you find that you are alive and fully present. Joy and happiness can only be experienced with right mindfulness and concentration.

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