Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

 

What if there was a way you could train your wisdom and insight? No tools or equipment required. No books to read. No classes to attend. All you’d need is a few minutes each day. Such a means of building a wider perspective and developing clear insight exists. It’s called Zen meditation.

 

Zen Buddhist traditions place a greater emphasis on meditation than do some of the other schools of Buddhism. In Zen Buddhism, there’s a belief that wisdom, morality, and insight follow naturally from meditation practice. 

 

In this article, we’ll take a closer look at the two fundamental components of Zen meditation, which are ‘stopping’ and ‘looking deeply’. We’ll define Zen meditation and give some step-by-step instructions on how to practice Zen meditation. Ultimately, I’d like to clarify the somewhat intangible terms of ‘insight’ and ‘wisdom’, by illustrating short, real-life examples of how each Zen meditation session is like a deposit into a bank, in that the merits can be withdrawn later when conducting your daily life. 

 

“If you pack the wood too densely, the fire will not take; the flames need room to breathe. In the same way, if our lives have no breathing room, we won’t be able to enjoy all the things we have, no matter how great or precious they are.”

– Haemin Sunim, Love for Imperfect Things (paid link)

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What is Zen meditation?

 

Zen meditation, also known as zazen, is an integral aspect of Zen philosophy, derived from the Japanese term “zenno,” which originates from the Chinese Ch’an or channo, meaning “absorptive concentration”. Zazen, translated as “seated mind,” serves as the cornerstone of Zen, regarded not only as the pathway to wisdom and insight but, in the words of thirteenth-century master Dogen, as wisdom itself when practiced with wholehearted commitment. Zen meditation is not merely a component of Zen philosophy. It is the essence of Zen.

 

“If you are unable to find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it?”

– Dogen

 

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How to do Zen meditation

  • Stop doing whatever it is you were doing. Simply sit or stand still for a moment before engaging in the following instructions. 
  • Begin your meditation practice with a small bow towards your cushion or chair as a gesture of respect for the space you are about to occupy. 
  • Take a cross-legged position.
  • Gently lower your chin, open your eyes, and soften your focus, looking down about three feet in front of you. 
  • Place your tongue against the roof of your mouth to promote proper nasal breathing. 
  • Cradle your left hand with your right, thumbs meeting just below your navel.
  • Inhale through your nose, imagining your lower belly filling like a balloon, following the air’s movement. Exhale, “watching” the journey of the air as it exits through your nostrils. 
  • Establish a breathing pattern and count each breath, starting with one on the inbreath and two on the outbreath, progressing to ten, then returning to one. Acknowledge thoughts, let them go, and return to one if your mind wanders. 
  • Dedicate the merits of your practice to a loved one or to all beings.

 

Stopping: The first essential component of Zen meditation

 

Zen meditation recognizes that the mind and body are one. When the body is rushing, the mind races. When the mind is troubled, the body tenses. This is why Zen meditation teachers urge us to stop and sit for dedicated meditation practice. We must first calm the body before calming the mind. 

 

To stop in the sense of Zen meditation, we must literally stop using our body to manipulate the world. When you want to practice Zen meditation, first put down the phone, don’t try to kill two birds with one stone by stretching or practicing yoga, don’t worry about lighting incense or ringing a meditation bell. Invite total stillness. 

 

After we’ve settled the body, we can begin to use the breath as the bridge between mind and body which returns us to a natural state not dominated by language and intellect. The late Zen meditation teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh, called this returning home: 

 

“We run throughout our whole life, chasing after some idea of happiness. Stopping means to stop our running, our forgetfulness, and our being caught in the past or future. We come home to the present moment where life is available. The present moment contains every moment.”

– Thich Nhat Hanh, How To Relax (paid link)

 

Connecting with your natural state of composure

 

There is this idea in Zen philosophy that we’re like a block of uncarved wood, that our natural state is one of wholeness and composure. The human ability to detect patterns and use language to make sense of the world is like the blade that carves and shapes our mind into our concept of ‘self’. The sense of self is merely a collection of perceived patterns, some of which turn out to be incorrect when examined closely. These learned concepts beget expectations and desires. When we attach ourselves to these expectations and desires, we suffer. 

 

Additionally, the only thing that makes the past or future seem real is language. So this stopping, this returning home to the breath, is a break from the long-chain thinking we’re accustomed to. It’s a break from all the external thinking, labeling, and pattern-recognizing we all do. This is why the breath is so important as an object of focus. It’s always there. It’s a bridge between mind and body, and it requires no concepts, notions, ideas, or language.

 

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Looking deeply: The second essential component of Zen meditation 

 

Zen philosophy has a rich history and a vibrant culture today, so it’s no surprise that there are many different Zen meditation techniques. In some traditions, meditators use koans, which are paradoxical statements, stories, or questions which the meditator contemplates. One example is, “What was your original face before you were born?” In other traditions, a practice called Shikantaza (literally, “nothing but precise sitting”) is used to cultivate wisdom. Shikantaza is a variation of mindfulness or concentration meditation, whereby the meditator simply observes whatever bubbles up. Sounds, thoughts, sensations—just watch them come and go naturally. 

 

Then there’s the practice of looking deeply. This is where the meditator seeks the true nature of things. It’s the stripping away of the fabricated concepts that the human mind attaches to everything. The guidance of the Eightfold Path is useful here. Several of its folds come into play when looking deeply during meditation. 

 

We can practice Right Understanding by actively contemplating impermanence and non-attachment. We can practice compassion and seeing interconnection in the world by practicing loving kindness meditation. In loving kindness meditation, we simply repeat the phrases: May you be healthy. May you be happy. May you be at peace. 

 

To sustain this practice, we must have Right Concentration, where we marry our attention with our intention to practice. We must also practice Right Mindfulness, which helps us notice when we’ve become distracted. 

 

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Wisdom and insight are byproducts of practice

 

The methods are many, but the result of all these Zen meditation techniques is the same. When we stop and reflect as prescribed by the Zen meditation practices we’ve discussed, we can begin to see why Zen philosophy says insight and wisdom naturally follow from meditation. 

 

How could we not walk away wiser from a 20-minute meditation session during which we contemplated, however briefly, impermanence, interconnection, and unconditional love for all beings? How could we not walk away with a deeper understanding of our true nature from a 20-minute stretch during which we allowed our minds and bodies to rest in silence?

 

To say that insight and wisdom naturally follow from Zen meditation makes it sound easy, but this is not my intention. We must first break the habit of running, striving, planning, doing, and breaking a habit is never easy. Then, we must get good at observing the breath to settle the mind. Finally, once we are able to stop and return home to the breath, we can contemplate fundamental truths of life like impermanence and non-attachment, which is important because although they are fundamental, they are not always apparent in our daily lives. 

 

The benefits of Zen meditation

 

I’d like to leave you not with studies showing the physiological and psychological benefits of meditation, although that would be easy to do given there are so many of them out there. Instead, I’d like to leave you with some short, hypothetical examples of how the benefits of Zen meditation—the wisdom and insight that naturally flow from it—can occur in daily life. 

 

These are some ways that wisdom and insight manifest themselves in real life. Full disclosure: I’ve adapted most of the items from the list below from a wonderful book by Korean Zen Buddhist teacher, Haemin Sunim called The Things You Can Only See When You Slow Down (paid link)

 

When a terrible feeling arises, look for its transient nature. Remind yourself that it is only a visitor, and that it’ll be gone soon. 

The wise don’t stuff themselves at a meal to the point of feeling bloated and uncomfortable. They are aware of when they’ve eaten enough. 

When others are angry or abusive towards you, your first thought is, ‘This person is suffering. I wonder what’s causing that suffering.’ 

In relationships, your love is usually the only variable you can control. You can show your love in infinite ways, but you cannot control what they think, say, or do. 

Your true nature is that of unshakable composure. Only envy and expectation disrupt this natural steadiness of mind. 

When confronted with a difficult situation, be incredibly curious of your initial thought regarding it. The initial thought is like the lead in a good journalist’s story. It sets the tone for the rest of the narrative. Like any piece of good writing, it can be molded and shaped however you like. 

When you are overwhelmed, write everything that’s overwhelming you down on a piece of paper. This alleviates much of the angst. You’ll feel instantly better having organized your thoughts and having gotten them ‘out’ of your head. Now, place the paper on your desk, and take a rest—meditate, go for a walk, or go to bed. After you’ve rested, return to the paper and transform it into a list of small actions to take to resolve some of the issues. 

Try to be joyful even when you don’t feel like it. Part of Zen wisdom is keeping an open, curious, and playful mind. Anger closes the door to an open mind because anger is a state of certainty (I am angry because so-and-so did this), so choose joy whenever possible. 

When faced with a tough decision, add this factor into your equation: ‘How many people will benefit from this?’ If the answer is only yourself, then it may be the wrong decision. 

The easiest way to speak more eloquently and carefully is to say less. 

When you feel irritated or slightly depressed, do something kind for someone else. This will not solve your problem, but you will feel better. This is incredibly hard to do, so be patient with yourself as you practice.

 

Final thoughts

 

These instances, scenarios, and guidelines may seem idealistic. ‘Wisdom’ and ‘insight’ are lofty terms. I hope that the above points illustrate what these terms truly mean. Wisdom and insight are action states—they’re verbs. They’re things that you think, say, and do in real life. 

 

The ability to think, speak, and act like a Zen monk is within your reach. Wisdom and insight are only idealistic and intangible to the mind that is too busy, too caught up in the day-to-day. Zen meditation is the training ground that gradually builds the capacity to act in the ways described above. It’s the elevated look-off point that lets you climb out from under the canopy to see the panoramic view of the entire forest.

 

Remember, the first and most critical foundation of Zen meditation is to simply stop and sit. Don’t worry about concepts, techniques, or teachings. Just find stillness. 

 

Once you’ve mastered the ability to stop, you can then consider interconnection in your life. You can observe the transient nature of pain and beauty in your life. You can ask yourself, ‘what expectations, objects, or desires am I attached to? How can I let them go?’ These simple contemplations of the true nature of reality, and how it relates to your life, when combined with the restorative act of stopping, shift your neural circuitry in ways that enable wise thought, speech, and action. 

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Memento Mori: Embracing Life’s Impermanence In The Digital Age

Memento Mori: Embracing Life’s Impermanence In The Digital Age

In the age of smartphones, social media, and endless distractions, the ancient Stoic concept of Memento Mori has never been more relevant. Loosely translated as “Remember that you must die,” Memento Mori serves as a powerful reminder of our mortality and the fleeting nature of life. Let’s explore this timeliness concept and discover how it can help us navigate the digital age and find meaning in the midst of constant connectivity.

 

What does Memento Mori mean?

 

Memento Mori is a Latin phrase that translates to “Remember your mortality.” It’s a philosophical concept that serves as a reminder of our mortality, urging us to acknowledge the impermanence of life and to live with a sense of purpose and mindfulness in the face of this inevitable reality.

 

Memento Mori is not meant to be a morbid exercise. Rather, it’s meant to spark enthusiasm for life itself. ‘Remember’ is the operative word here, because we all know on an intellectual level that our time is limited. It’s just that we tend to forget, which leads us to squander our time.

 

This practice is not unique to Stoicism. In Buddhism, the concept of impermanence is central to most teachings. There are even Buddhist meditative practices whereby the meditator visualizes their decaying body, eventually imagining it turning to dust. 

 

In his book The Miracle of Mindfulness, the late Zen Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, describes his newfound insight after having initially resisted the practice of visualizing death and coming to terms with it:

 

“Now I see that if one doesn’t know how to die, one can hardly see how to live—because death is a part of life.”

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Memento Mori resolves the digital dilemma

 

In today’s world, we’re bombarded with a constant stream of information and entertainment. Our smartphones keep us plugged into the digital realm 24/7, making it easy to forget about our own mortality. We’re so engrossed in virtual lives that the idea of death often remains distant and abstract.

 

Yet, it’s precisely in this digital age that the Stoic concept of Memento Mori can offer us profound wisdom. By reflecting on the impermanence of life, we can gain a unique perspective on our relationship with technology and its impact on our well-being.

 

With the age of fully immersive, AI- and VR-powered meta universes just around the corner, it is perhaps practices like mindfulness and Memento Mori that will preserve what it even means and feels like to be human.

 

The endless scroll vs. the finite lifespan

 

Imagine scrolling through your social media feed endlessly, consumed by an infinite stream of content. Now, contrast that with the Stoic reminder that your own life is finite. Memento Mori prompts us to question how we spend our precious time. Are we investing it wisely in meaningful pursuits, or are we frittering it away on trivial distractions?

 

Take stock of how you spend your time. It is the most precious, non-renewable resource you have, so think twice about mindless digital consumption. 

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Digital detox: A modern Memento Mori practice

 

In the digital age, taking a break from our screens and devices can be a form of Memento Mori practice in itself. Consider a digital detox as a reminder of the physical world around us. Unplugging and spending time in nature, engaging in face-to-face conversations, or simply meditating on our own mortality can help us restore balance in a hyperconnected world.

 

Here are four practical tips on how to do an effective digital detox: 

 

  • Set clear boundaries: Start by defining specific time periods or situations where you’ll disconnect from digital devices. This could be during meals, before bedtime, or on weekends. Communicate these boundaries to friends and family to get their support.

 

  • Turn off notifications: Disable non-essential app notifications to reduce the constant urge to check your phone. This will help you regain control over your attention and reduce distractions.

  • Engage in offline activities: Plan activities that don’t involve screens, such as reading physical books, taking nature walks, practicing a hobby, or spending quality time with loved ones. These activities will help you rediscover the joy of the offline world.

  • Reflect and reevaluate: During your digital detox, take time to reflect on how it’s impacting your well-being. Journal your thoughts and feelings, noting any positive changes in your mood, productivity, or relationships. Use this feedback to make necessary adjustments and incorporate healthier tech habits into your daily life.

 

Legacy in the digital realm

 

In an era where our digital footprints often outlive us, Memento Mori encourages us to consider the legacy we leave online. What do our social media profiles say about us? How will our digital presence be remembered when we’re gone? This reflection can inspire us to curate our online lives with more intention, authenticity, and compassion.

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Mindful living and digital minimalism

 

Memento Mori invites us to live with mindfulness, appreciating each moment as it comes. In a world ringing and buzzing with notifications and constant updates, practicing digital minimalism can help us reclaim our time and focus on what truly matters.

 

Mindfulness is a central theme of this blog because it’s the most effective means of connecting with life. It’s like a spotlight of attention, illuminating whatever we choose to shine it on. It not only allows us to experience life, rather than being distracted from it, but it’s also a precursor to philosophical practices such as Stoicism. Without mindful awareness, it’s impossible to respond (as opposed to react) to difficult situations virtuously. 

 

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Final thoughts

 

Memento Mori isn’t just a philosophical concept from times of Roman imperial glory; it’s a timely and powerful reminder for our digital age. By embracing our own impermanence, we can cultivate a deeper sense of meaning and purpose in a world filled with distractions. So the next time you reach for your smartphone, remember the words of the Stoics:

 

“Life, if well lived, is long enough.”

– Seneca

 

“You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.”

– Marcus Aurelius

 

Embrace life’s impermanence, and let it guide you to a more mindful and intentional existence in the digital era.

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