Karma In Buddhism: Sowing The Seeds Of Love

Karma In Buddhism: Sowing The Seeds Of Love

In modern times, we use the word karma in many ways. ‘Ain’t karma a bitch’—meaning what ‘Goes around, comes around.’ It can also refer to the Golden Rule from the Hebrew and Christian Bible: ‘Do unto others what as you would have them do unto you.’ But, in the context of this article, we’re dealing with ancient times, and going back 2,500 years to India where the Buddha lived and taught. What is karma in Buddhism? Do we have to believe in reincarnation for karma to be relevant?

 

Karma is a Sanskrit word that literally means ‘action’ or ‘doing’. In Hinduism, it is believed that everyone is trapped in samsara (an endless cycle of birth-death-rebirth for eternity). The concept of karma in Hinduism describes a system in which beneficial effects are derived from past beneficial actions, and harmful actions create misery in your next lives. However, what was considered as a beneficial action was in the hands of the highest members of the caste system, the Brahmins. The Brahmin priests would perform a ritual on your behalf and that would bring you better karma for your next life. The problem was that if you were of the lower castes, even merchants, common laborers and especially the untouchables, that option was not available to you. You were trapped.

 

Karma in Buddhism

 

Along with The Four Noble Truths and The Eightfold Path, the Buddha repudiated the ancient concept of karma. The Buddha said that the ‘intent’ of the action is more important than the action itself and anyone, no matter what caste, had the power to change their own destiny by doing good deeds with the intention of caring. So each individual could change their destiny, not only in this life, but in future incarnations. It was a complete democratization of karma. In essence, the Buddha revolutionized ethics. With karma available to everyone, action and intention had real consequences. Essentially, it means that we are in charge of our own moral condition. The buck stops with you: your destiny and moral condition were no longer controlled by the whim of the gods or the rituals of the Brahmins. 

 

So answering the two questions I posed above, ‘What does karma mean in Buddhism?’ It means helping others and performing good deeds with the pure intention of compassion. ‘Do we have to believe in reincarnation?’ My answer to that is ‘No’. We can live in the present moment during this lifetime and help others. This requires no belief in reincarnation.

 

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Your mind is the garden

 

Before we can sow seeds of compassion, we must take care to choose fertile ground on which to sow. That means that we must act with an open heart and the right intention. Our mind is like a field, and performing actions is like sowing seeds in that field. Virtuous actions sow seeds of future happiness and non-virtuous actions sow seeds of future suffering. These seeds remain dormant in our mind until the conditions for them to ripen occur, and then they produce their harvest. 

 

We all have a lot of garbage in our lives. We can use that garbage as compost. We all suffer, but we must not allow our suffering to prevent us from seeing all the miracles of life. If one tree in our garden is sick, we must tend to it carefully, but don’t ignore the rest of your garden. A well-tended garden will bear life-sustaining fruits and vegetables along with beautiful blossoms that soothe the soul. Although flowers are impermanent, like us, it makes them all the more precious. 

 

Other ancient religious texts such as the Bhagavad Gita say that the secret to life is ‘to act well without attachment to the fruits of your labor.’ Most of us have heard ‘The road to hell is paved with good intentions.’ This extremely cynical view on good deeds may actually warn us to be very careful on how we approach and conduct our actions for the good. But we must act with good intentions. It is our intention that matters. If you are helping others and giving of your time, do not do so to gain ‘brownie points’ or recognition for your ‘success’. That is not karma. Real karma in Buddhism comes from a place of compassion for the suffering in the world. When we commit to something, we will experience some measure of failure as well as success. If we focus only on the results we will become discouraged and devastated. 

 

We can give our best, create what we can, and trust in the larger process of life itself. We can plan, care for, and tend to but we can’t control. We must let go of the outcome.

 

“Move forward as occasion offers. Never look around to see whether any shall note it. Be satisfied with success even in the smallest matter, and think that such a result is no trifle.” – Marcus Aurelius

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Be a vessel for virtue: watering your seeds

 

Buddhist thought and practice are skillful means for cultivating three basic elements of our own character: 1) Wisdom, 2) Compassion, and 3) Integrity. These are known as The Three Pillars of Buddhism. Buddhists have reverence for all life and this is called ‘virtue’. Our life on this planet is short and goes by in the blink of an eye, but the smallest act of kindness can change the world and if we cultivate integrity and kindness, we pass that on to others, to the next generation. We can literally become a vessel for virtue. Like a pitcher of fresh water we can pass it on to others so they can drink from the well of kindness and water their garden.

 

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Tending our garden: cultivation of care

 

In Buddhism, ethical questions are not framed in terms of good and bad, but on suffering and its causes. Stealing is harmful to us and the wider community. Buddhist training does not view the world through the lens of ‘shame’, of the concept of ‘sin’ or speak of a God who sets moral rules and punishes wrongdoers. Instead, it describes the natural laws of karma (cause and effect), interconnectedness, and who we really are! 

 

Buddhist traditions teach that we are born with an innate basic goodness and inner nobility. There is no denying that all of our actions, words, and thoughts have direct consequences. Often, we judge people by their situation, appearance, and yes, wrongdoing. But Buddhists don’t regard those who do harm as ‘sinners’ or intrinsically ‘evil’. They act from ignorance, and their own suffering. We don’t know what suffering has caused the other person to act this way. Allow me to present a scenario for you.

 

You are at a busy market on a hot afternoon carefully selecting the freshest fruits and vegetables and after your purchase you head home with all your groceries stuffed in a large paper bag. Just as you approach a corner at an intersection, somebody bumps into you, causing you to fall and your groceries are strewn all over the sidewalk and crosswalk. Enraged, you jump to your feet ready to give someone hell. But, just behind you still lying on the sidewalk is a man with dark glasses and a white cane. He is blind. How quickly you change from raging anger to genuine concern for the welfare of this poor man. The spilled groceries no longer matter. 

 

Buddhism teaches that wrongdoing emanates from ignorance, delusion, cravings and that people are not inherently evil. In this case the culprit was literally blind.

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Karma in Buddhism: planting seeds on the Eightfold Path

 

“Plant a green tree in your heart and maybe the singing bird will come.”

 

“Plant a thought – harvest an act

 

Plant an act – harvest a habit.

 

Plant a habit – harvest a character

 

Plant a character – harvest a destiny.”

 

– First Nations Shoshone proverb

 

When we walk and live the Eightfold Path, we can act, not out of aversion or grasping, but as a labor of love. Our actions are a product of our wisdom and compassion, even when the immediate result is uncertain. When we act for the long-term, there will be pressure to take sides, grasp opinions, constantly measure the results, and try to control everything. But grasping is not the way to wisdom. 

 

“When we do the best that we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.” – Helen Keller

 

Praise and blame, obstacles and triumph will come and go. It is not given to us to know how our life will affect the world. What is given to us is to tend the intentions of the heart and plant beautiful seeds with our deeds. Do not doubt that your good actions will bear fruit, and that change for the better can arise from your life.

 

“Do not depend on the hope of results but concentrate on the value, the rightness, the truth of the work itself.” – Thomas Merton 

 

When our efforts seem futile, we can trust that in another time and place there may be unexpected results. When we are trying to address a problem, improve the state of the world, help a friend, comfort a grieving child, it may seem to be going nowhere. Yet our actions are like planting seeds in the ground. We don’t know for sure when they will bear fruit, and what seems like failure may be a time of gestation. Our work toward the good can be sustained if we don’t measure the success or failure of our actions by the immediate and superficial results. I think that is why I love gardening so much. It is so good for the soul and it teaches us patience. When I am working in a garden, I am totally in the here and now—without trying to be.

How to practice Karma in Buddhism

 

“It is for us to pray not for tasks equal to our powers, but for powers equal to our tasks; to go forward with a great desire forever beating at the door of our hearts as we travel toward our distant goal.” – Helen Keller

 

“To see things in the seed, that is genius.” – Lao Tzu

 

A person with little financial means or security may say to themselves, ‘But I have nothing to give.’ Oh yes you do, oh yes, we do. Act as if you matter, whatever you do in life, whether you feel that way or not. There are many ways in which we can give. Give away thanks. Give away praise. Give away information. Give away time. Time is a precious commodity in the modern era. Most importantly, give away love. Be kind to others, while including yourself in your circle of care.

 

“In giving you are throwing a bridge across the chasm of your solitude.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

 

Give away information

 

So much of what we have in life comes with great difficulty. And, often, we see others struggle as much as we did. Turn this around, and begin giving others as much help as you can give. We must give with no expectations of return. More likely than not, however, the return will not only benefit the person you are helping, but you will find greater meaning in your own life. For some reason, when you become a support to others you become bigger than you are. Moreover, when people use what they have learned from you, your effect in this world is greatly magnified. 

 

Give away praise

 

Often the people we find most difficult to praise are the ones closest to us—our partners, our children, our parents, our co-workers. A lot of the difficulty comes from anger and resentment. Yet, surprisingly, when we praise the people in our lives, we release this negativity and open the door for their being loving toward us. In relationships, too many of us focus on the negative, and have no difficulty reminding significant others of their shortcomings. No wonder so many relationships don’t last. It is natural that we want our loved ones to be affirming and supportive. It is important to surround ourselves with giving, loving, and nurturing people. You must become what you want to attract; be the kind of person you would want to surround yourself with. The laws of attraction: like attracts like.

 

Give away time

 

In this modern era, time, literally, is the most precious commodity. There never seems to be enough of it. I watch my son who has just become a father (I’m a Grandpa!) tending to his wife and child while working a very high-pressure job. I often wish I could be there to help, but he lives in Luxembourg and I am in Canada. And he took the time to create my own blog for me, which literally is like giving the nuclear codes to a chimpanzee! 

 

When you think about it, our time on this planet is limited, so time is our most precious gift. How do you give away time? Listen to a friend, write a note of thanks, help someone learn, get involved in something bigger than yourself and become a participating member of your community by volunteering your time. All of these take you out of yourself and help you operate from a different part of your being—the part that is loving, nurturing, and abundant. However, it is absolutely essential that you do not take on too many projects and that you leave time for yourself. 

 

Give away love

 

When we let someone be who they are without trying to change them; that is giving away love. When we trust that someone else can handle his or her life, and act accordingly, that is giving away love. When we let go and allow others to learn and grow without feeling that our existence is threatened; that is giving away love. What we often define and perceive to be love really isn’t—it is being needy. Love is generally confused with dependence; but in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence. The ability to give also depends on whether you think you count or not, so in that respect self-esteem is an essential element in the process. We must love and care for ourselves first and foremost.

 

Give away smiles

 

It takes very little for us to smile. Sometimes, I will be in the grocery store or mall and see people with grim, hostile faces. It is so sad. So I smile everywhere I go and I smile when I meditate. I smile if I am in pain, if I am suffering and eventually the smile brings me back to the present moment. Basically we suffer the most in the past and in the future.

 

Yesterday is but a dream

 

And tomorrow only a vision –

 

But today – well lived in the 

 

Present moment,

 

Makes all our yesterdays 

 

Full of beautiful memories

 

And all our tomorrows

 

Visions of hope. 

 

Final thoughts

 

Giving is flowing outward toward genuine connection and is the greatest antidote to fear. It’s about letting go of your crouched, withholding self and standing tall with outstretched arms. It’s about feeling a sense of abundance. Like any other skill, however, it takes practice. Giving from the position of ‘I count’, enhances this ability.

 

“This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as being a worthy one, the being a force of nature instead of a feverish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making us happy.

 

I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and, as long as I live, it is my privilege to do whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle for me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I’ve got to hold up for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it to the next generation.” – George Bernard Shaw

 

In the final analysis, it is kindness, only kindness to others and to ourselves that matters.

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Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

Zen Meditation: How To Stop And Reflect For Wisdom 

 

What if there was a way you could train your wisdom and insight? No tools or equipment required. No books to read. No classes to attend. All you’d need is a few minutes each day. Such a means of building a wider perspective and developing clear insight exists. It’s called Zen meditation.

 

Zen Buddhist traditions place a greater emphasis on meditation than do some of the other schools of Buddhism. In Zen Buddhism, there’s a belief that wisdom, morality, and insight follow naturally from meditation practice. 

 

In this article, we’ll take a closer look at the two fundamental components of Zen meditation, which are ‘stopping’ and ‘looking deeply’. We’ll define Zen meditation and give some step-by-step instructions on how to practice Zen meditation. Ultimately, I’d like to clarify the somewhat intangible terms of ‘insight’ and ‘wisdom’, by illustrating short, real-life examples of how each Zen meditation session is like a deposit into a bank, in that the merits can be withdrawn later when conducting your daily life. 

 

“If you pack the wood too densely, the fire will not take; the flames need room to breathe. In the same way, if our lives have no breathing room, we won’t be able to enjoy all the things we have, no matter how great or precious they are.”

– Haemin Sunim, Love for Imperfect Things (paid link)

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What is Zen meditation?

 

Zen meditation, also known as zazen, is an integral aspect of Zen philosophy, derived from the Japanese term “zenno,” which originates from the Chinese Ch’an or channo, meaning “absorptive concentration”. Zazen, translated as “seated mind,” serves as the cornerstone of Zen, regarded not only as the pathway to wisdom and insight but, in the words of thirteenth-century master Dogen, as wisdom itself when practiced with wholehearted commitment. Zen meditation is not merely a component of Zen philosophy. It is the essence of Zen.

 

“If you are unable to find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it?”

– Dogen

 

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How to do Zen meditation

  • Stop doing whatever it is you were doing. Simply sit or stand still for a moment before engaging in the following instructions. 
  • Begin your meditation practice with a small bow towards your cushion or chair as a gesture of respect for the space you are about to occupy. 
  • Take a cross-legged position.
  • Gently lower your chin, open your eyes, and soften your focus, looking down about three feet in front of you. 
  • Place your tongue against the roof of your mouth to promote proper nasal breathing. 
  • Cradle your left hand with your right, thumbs meeting just below your navel.
  • Inhale through your nose, imagining your lower belly filling like a balloon, following the air’s movement. Exhale, “watching” the journey of the air as it exits through your nostrils. 
  • Establish a breathing pattern and count each breath, starting with one on the inbreath and two on the outbreath, progressing to ten, then returning to one. Acknowledge thoughts, let them go, and return to one if your mind wanders. 
  • Dedicate the merits of your practice to a loved one or to all beings.

 

Stopping: The first essential component of Zen meditation

 

Zen meditation recognizes that the mind and body are one. When the body is rushing, the mind races. When the mind is troubled, the body tenses. This is why Zen meditation teachers urge us to stop and sit for dedicated meditation practice. We must first calm the body before calming the mind. 

 

To stop in the sense of Zen meditation, we must literally stop using our body to manipulate the world. When you want to practice Zen meditation, first put down the phone, don’t try to kill two birds with one stone by stretching or practicing yoga, don’t worry about lighting incense or ringing a meditation bell. Invite total stillness. 

 

After we’ve settled the body, we can begin to use the breath as the bridge between mind and body which returns us to a natural state not dominated by language and intellect. The late Zen meditation teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh, called this returning home: 

 

“We run throughout our whole life, chasing after some idea of happiness. Stopping means to stop our running, our forgetfulness, and our being caught in the past or future. We come home to the present moment where life is available. The present moment contains every moment.”

– Thich Nhat Hanh, How To Relax (paid link)

 

Connecting with your natural state of composure

 

There is this idea in Zen philosophy that we’re like a block of uncarved wood, that our natural state is one of wholeness and composure. The human ability to detect patterns and use language to make sense of the world is like the blade that carves and shapes our mind into our concept of ‘self’. The sense of self is merely a collection of perceived patterns, some of which turn out to be incorrect when examined closely. These learned concepts beget expectations and desires. When we attach ourselves to these expectations and desires, we suffer. 

 

Additionally, the only thing that makes the past or future seem real is language. So this stopping, this returning home to the breath, is a break from the long-chain thinking we’re accustomed to. It’s a break from all the external thinking, labeling, and pattern-recognizing we all do. This is why the breath is so important as an object of focus. It’s always there. It’s a bridge between mind and body, and it requires no concepts, notions, ideas, or language.

 

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Looking deeply: The second essential component of Zen meditation 

 

Zen philosophy has a rich history and a vibrant culture today, so it’s no surprise that there are many different Zen meditation techniques. In some traditions, meditators use koans, which are paradoxical statements, stories, or questions which the meditator contemplates. One example is, “What was your original face before you were born?” In other traditions, a practice called Shikantaza (literally, “nothing but precise sitting”) is used to cultivate wisdom. Shikantaza is a variation of mindfulness or concentration meditation, whereby the meditator simply observes whatever bubbles up. Sounds, thoughts, sensations—just watch them come and go naturally. 

 

Then there’s the practice of looking deeply. This is where the meditator seeks the true nature of things. It’s the stripping away of the fabricated concepts that the human mind attaches to everything. The guidance of the Eightfold Path is useful here. Several of its folds come into play when looking deeply during meditation. 

 

We can practice Right Understanding by actively contemplating impermanence and non-attachment. We can practice compassion and seeing interconnection in the world by practicing loving kindness meditation. In loving kindness meditation, we simply repeat the phrases: May you be healthy. May you be happy. May you be at peace. 

 

To sustain this practice, we must have Right Concentration, where we marry our attention with our intention to practice. We must also practice Right Mindfulness, which helps us notice when we’ve become distracted. 

 

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Wisdom and insight are byproducts of practice

 

The methods are many, but the result of all these Zen meditation techniques is the same. When we stop and reflect as prescribed by the Zen meditation practices we’ve discussed, we can begin to see why Zen philosophy says insight and wisdom naturally follow from meditation. 

 

How could we not walk away wiser from a 20-minute meditation session during which we contemplated, however briefly, impermanence, interconnection, and unconditional love for all beings? How could we not walk away with a deeper understanding of our true nature from a 20-minute stretch during which we allowed our minds and bodies to rest in silence?

 

To say that insight and wisdom naturally follow from Zen meditation makes it sound easy, but this is not my intention. We must first break the habit of running, striving, planning, doing, and breaking a habit is never easy. Then, we must get good at observing the breath to settle the mind. Finally, once we are able to stop and return home to the breath, we can contemplate fundamental truths of life like impermanence and non-attachment, which is important because although they are fundamental, they are not always apparent in our daily lives. 

 

The benefits of Zen meditation

 

I’d like to leave you not with studies showing the physiological and psychological benefits of meditation, although that would be easy to do given there are so many of them out there. Instead, I’d like to leave you with some short, hypothetical examples of how the benefits of Zen meditation—the wisdom and insight that naturally flow from it—can occur in daily life. 

 

These are some ways that wisdom and insight manifest themselves in real life. Full disclosure: I’ve adapted most of the items from the list below from a wonderful book by Korean Zen Buddhist teacher, Haemin Sunim called The Things You Can Only See When You Slow Down (paid link)

 

When a terrible feeling arises, look for its transient nature. Remind yourself that it is only a visitor, and that it’ll be gone soon. 

The wise don’t stuff themselves at a meal to the point of feeling bloated and uncomfortable. They are aware of when they’ve eaten enough. 

When others are angry or abusive towards you, your first thought is, ‘This person is suffering. I wonder what’s causing that suffering.’ 

In relationships, your love is usually the only variable you can control. You can show your love in infinite ways, but you cannot control what they think, say, or do. 

Your true nature is that of unshakable composure. Only envy and expectation disrupt this natural steadiness of mind. 

When confronted with a difficult situation, be incredibly curious of your initial thought regarding it. The initial thought is like the lead in a good journalist’s story. It sets the tone for the rest of the narrative. Like any piece of good writing, it can be molded and shaped however you like. 

When you are overwhelmed, write everything that’s overwhelming you down on a piece of paper. This alleviates much of the angst. You’ll feel instantly better having organized your thoughts and having gotten them ‘out’ of your head. Now, place the paper on your desk, and take a rest—meditate, go for a walk, or go to bed. After you’ve rested, return to the paper and transform it into a list of small actions to take to resolve some of the issues. 

Try to be joyful even when you don’t feel like it. Part of Zen wisdom is keeping an open, curious, and playful mind. Anger closes the door to an open mind because anger is a state of certainty (I am angry because so-and-so did this), so choose joy whenever possible. 

When faced with a tough decision, add this factor into your equation: ‘How many people will benefit from this?’ If the answer is only yourself, then it may be the wrong decision. 

The easiest way to speak more eloquently and carefully is to say less. 

When you feel irritated or slightly depressed, do something kind for someone else. This will not solve your problem, but you will feel better. This is incredibly hard to do, so be patient with yourself as you practice.

 

Final thoughts

 

These instances, scenarios, and guidelines may seem idealistic. ‘Wisdom’ and ‘insight’ are lofty terms. I hope that the above points illustrate what these terms truly mean. Wisdom and insight are action states—they’re verbs. They’re things that you think, say, and do in real life. 

 

The ability to think, speak, and act like a Zen monk is within your reach. Wisdom and insight are only idealistic and intangible to the mind that is too busy, too caught up in the day-to-day. Zen meditation is the training ground that gradually builds the capacity to act in the ways described above. It’s the elevated look-off point that lets you climb out from under the canopy to see the panoramic view of the entire forest.

 

Remember, the first and most critical foundation of Zen meditation is to simply stop and sit. Don’t worry about concepts, techniques, or teachings. Just find stillness. 

 

Once you’ve mastered the ability to stop, you can then consider interconnection in your life. You can observe the transient nature of pain and beauty in your life. You can ask yourself, ‘what expectations, objects, or desires am I attached to? How can I let them go?’ These simple contemplations of the true nature of reality, and how it relates to your life, when combined with the restorative act of stopping, shift your neural circuitry in ways that enable wise thought, speech, and action. 

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