Two Wolves

One day, a grandfather and his granddaughter were preparing dinner.

The grandfather says to his granddaughter, ‘I have two wolves in my heart that are fighting each other. One wolf is vengeful, angry, and afraid, while the other wolf is kind, forgiving, and loving.’

After some time the little girl asks, “Grandfather, which wolf will win?” He replies, ‘The one I feed the most.’

The end.

A short story about internal conflict

We all have two wolves in our hearts. Instead of trying to eliminate the one that causes us pain, we focus on nourishing the one that promotes compassion.

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A short story about internal conflict

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