I thought I would do something different for the summary of Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations. I’ve gone through the ‘popular highlights’ section of the Kindle version to pull out the most highlighted sections by thousands of readers from all around the world.
Some of the key points from Meditations that I’ll be sharing in this summary of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius have been highlighted over ten thousand times!
If that many people took the time to highlight the same section, it must mean that it contains some valuable wisdom.
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Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations summary
For this summary, I’ll provide the Marcus Aurelius quotes in their entirety and add my own commentary for each one.
“It is, in other words, not objects and events but the interpretations we place on them that are the problem. Our duty is therefore to exercise stringent control over the faculty of perception, with the aim of protecting our mind from error.”
Here, Marcus Aurelius encapsulates a fundamental concept of Stoicism, which is that nothing except our character can be judged as good or bad. He makes this point inadvertently by reminding us that only our judgment of events can determine their quality.
“Stop allowing your mind to be a slave, to be jerked about by selfish impulses, to kick against fate and the present, and to mistrust the future.”
Aurelius is imploring us to remain steady in the present moment. We must embrace the unknown, have confidence in our ability to handle future challenges, and above all, remain present in the process of working on what we can control here and now.
“Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise and genuine seriousness, tenderly, willingly, with justice. And on freeing yourself from all other distractions. Yes, you can—if you do everything as if it were the last thing you were doing in your life, and stop being aimless, stop letting your emotions override what your mind tells you, stop being hypocritical, self-centered, irritable.”
Often, we treat certain tasks and activities as stepping stones toward something else. We rush to complete them so that we can move on. Here, Marcus is urging us to focus on the process and treat every task as if it were the most important. He also implores us to stop making excuses.
“You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.”
This is a classic, memento mori quote from Marcus Aurelius. Life is finite, and we only get so many chances to act in harmony with our values.
“The longest-lived and those who will die soonest lose the same thing. The present is all that they can give up, since that is all you have, and what you do not have, you cannot lose.”
This reminds us of the paramount importance of present moment mindfulness because the present is where life happens.
“Don’t waste the rest of your time here worrying about other people—unless it affects the common good. It will keep you from doing anything useful. You’ll be too preoccupied with what so-and-so is doing, and why, and what they’re saying, and what they’re thinking, and what they’re up to, and all the other things that throw you off and keep you from focusing on your own mind.”
This passage contains two important lessons. The first is quite clear: don’t worry about other people. Instead, focus on yourself. The second is a reminder of the ultimate purpose of Stoicism, which is to make the world a better place. Therefore, we can and should concern ourselves with others when we are certain that speaking up or taking action will make the world better.
“Forget everything else. Keep hold of this alone and remember it. Each of us lives only now, this brief instant. The rest has been lived already, or is impossible to see.”
Again, Aurelius urges us to live in the present moment. This call to mindful awareness is yet another striking similarity between Buddhism and Stoicism.
“Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been.”
We need to constantly remind ourselves of our intention to live without attachment to our ego. All our lives, we’ve been conditioning our ego to take center stage, so it requires a constant reminder of our intention to deflate it. Once we do develop non-attachment to the ego, we will be less susceptible to insult and injury.
“So remember this principle when something threatens to cause you pain: the thing itself was no misfortune at all; to endure it and prevail is great good fortune.”
The ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, taught that we should be grateful for challenges because they are the most important means of testing our philosophical practices. If not for challenges, we wouldn’t know how far we’ve come or where to improve in our practice.
“The things you think about determine the quality of your mind. Your soul takes on the color of your thoughts.”
This well-known Marcus Aurelius quote reminds us that we do have some agency over our thoughts. With practice, effort, and compassion for ourselves, we can try to replace negative thoughts with positive ones.
Summary of Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations: The Key Takeaways
- Only our character can be judged as good or bad.
- Worries about the future and regret about the past are the biggest impediments to living in the present moment. Embracing fate and having confidence in yourself is the key to remaining present.
- Focus on the process and treat all tasks with the utmost care.
- Remember that life is short, and let that reality motivate you to live well.
- The present moment is the most precious thing a person has.
- Don’t focus on others, unless they are causing harm to the world.
- With less attachment to the ego, we are less susceptible to the praise and criticism of others.
- Be grateful for challenges because they are valuable testing and learning opportunities.
- Make an effort to have positive thoughts.
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